I'm thankful for... gymnastics.

This coming week is American Thanksgiving, which is a huge holiday here. Many people take the whole week off to travel, and everyone expects you to have plans of some kind. We, of course, don't have any plans other than a dinner with our wonderful neighbours. However, the holiday hype has prompted me to talk more about what Thanksgiving is with the kids, and Madeleine especially is (I think, anyway) starting to understand what it means to be thankful. At dinner we each say something we are thankful for... the past three nights she has said "gymnastics".  She has been going to a gymnastics class every week, and she does really enjoy it, although she is still too shy to participate in any of the warm up activities. 

Steve is undoubtedly thankful for the 1939 lathe he found on Craigslist, after months of looking. He tells me that he has wanted one ever since he was a teenager and learned how to use one in high school shop class.  He has had a lot of fun taking it apart, figuring out what it needs, and finding a few parts. It isn't quite in working condition just yet, but I'm sure it would be if he had more time to work on it.

The kids had fun with this bookshelf unit that is standing on end, before we put it next to Ross' bed.

Madeleine loves playing with baking soda and dyed vinegar.  I had a few syringes stashed away, and they made the perfect tool for distributing the colours.

On this day, by the time Ross woke from his nap and got a turn, the tray was slightly less tidy.

On Veteran's Day, we all took a 30 minute ferry ride into San Francisco and spent the day on the waterfront.

About a month ago, we took the side-railing off of Ross' crib because he had started climbing out of the crib. He and Madeleine have always shared a room, but it's only been the last few months that they go to bed at the same time. Now, they both look at books before falling asleep, but Madeleine always falls asleep first. More than once, we have gone in to find Ross snuggled in next to her, and I'm sure he climbs up there after she's asleep since she is not keen on sharing her bed when she's awake. It's pretty cute, but we always move him back to his own bed.

Another big change is that Ross has been diaper-free for nearly a month now! He seemed really interested in the toilet since he wants to do whatever Madeleine is doing, so we decided to take the plunge and go cold turkey on diapers, for both day and night. He's done really well, with a few rough patches because of his desire to be totally independent and his dislike of being told what to do, but now he is usually quite happy to take a book and go sit on the potty when he needs to go. It's so nice to be done with diapers and really cute to see how proud he is of being able to use the toilet.

Lake Tahoe

This past weekend we went to Lake Tahoe for the first time. It is a 3.5 hour drive away, and a very popular weekend destination for people in San Francisco and the East Bay. Fall is considered off-season since it's too cold for the beach and lake activities, and there is no snow for skiing on the many hills. It was lovely to see some fall colours, smell the crisp air, and get an idea of what it is like before the snow and crowds arrive. We rented a little cabin-esque condo that was the perfect size for us, and looked out at a redwood forest.

We went for a walk behind the condo on Saturday afternoon and the kids had a great time with all the pine cones, sticks, leaves, and rocks.

I tried to get a decent timer shot, but they all turned out a bit blurry.

Daddy was woken from a snooze on the couch by this squishy little cheek smothering him with love!

On Sunday, we drove from the north end, where we were staying in a little village called Truckee, down the eastern edge of the lake (which is actually across the state line, in Nevada). At the southern end of the lake, we found a beach where we had lunch and the kids played in the frigid water for a while before we began the long drive back.

It would be fun to go back at least once in the winter - this is probably the closest we will live to snow for the next few years! Steve and I would love to use our x-country skis again, and it would be fun to introduce the kids to playing in the snow.

Big Sister, Little Brother

A few weeks ago we went for a little hike in Tennessee Valley, which brings you out onto a beautiful beach with big cliffs and interesting rock formations all around. It was really cute to watch M and R on this stretch of the hike (when they were both actually walking forward)...

M definitely loves to be a leader, and for now, Ross is happy to follow.

She also loves to mother him at times, and I often hear her telling him things I have told her.

He can only tolerate so much mothering from his big sis though, and then he starts to push her away...

Ross loved running with the waves, poking jellyfish with sticks, and digging in the sand.

Ross is still very attached to me; he doesn't like to see me leave, and often only wants me when he's just woken up.

 Madeleine, on the other hand, is becoming quite independent.

 She loves her new lego set.

But most of all, she loves her Daddy, and the time she gets to spend with him in the garage. She sits on the workbench and they do little projects together. This past weekend, they were learning about batteries and he showed her how to use a multimeter. Steve also set up a string of coloured lamps that she could turn on one-by-one by touching a wire to them. She loved it, and immediately made up a story about which one was the mommy light, the daddy light, the big sister light, and the baby brother light.

Alberta and B.C.

The kids and I just returned from another two weeks away. This time, we spent four days in Calgary with my two wonderful friends Ashley and Natalie, and their kiddos (we each have two now), and then the rest of the time with my parents in Abbotsford.  Ashley, Natalie and I studied nursing together and then all had our first babies within months of each other. We hadn't met up in over two years, and since Ashley is in the process of moving from Vancouver to Philadelphia, we figured this might be one of our few chances to all be relatively close. It was so nice to have that time together - even if six kids ranging from 9 weeks to 3.5 years did make it chaotic at times - it was fun to see the kids play together, and to have the evenings to just sit and chat (plus or minus a baby or two).

In Abbotsford, the kids felt completely at home and loved playing with all our childhood toys. I got to spend two days in Bellingham visiting with my Grandpa, who is 92 and still living on his own in an assisted living apartment. Here is Madeleine playing dress-up with some of our old handmade costumes.

We also enjoyed genuine autumn weather, and got to wear sweaters (matching ones that were knit for my sister and me as kids), enjoy fires in the fireplace, visit a local apple orchard, and even splash in rain puddles. The kids hadn't seen a rain puddle since we left New Zealand - it was definitely a highlight!

Here is Ross eating one of the little apples from the orchard...

Every day, Grandpa would go outside for a few hours to work on the fence that he and a neighbour are building together. The kids often sat on the front steps to watch, anxiously waiting for him to finish so he could come home and play.

I don't think my Mom's living room usually looks like this...

My mom, Madeleine and I went out for lunch one day during Ross' nap time.

We are home now, and happy to be back with Steve/Daddy. Unfortunately, we arrived just in time for a major heat wave, and I am desperately missing the autumn weather and rain puddles. My friends here assure me that "normally" it does get cool and rain in the winters. 

Ontario

We recently spent a week at Steve's family's cottage in Port Elgin, on the shores of Lake Huron. We had a wonderful time and the kids loved spending time at the beach. 

Grammy Inez relaxing on the beach.

Ross insists on keeping his baby close to his side, and going shirtless makes for easier feeds when his baby needs to eat (from his bellybutton, of course).

Steve got an old model train of his dad's working again, and all the kids loved watching it go, and loading it up with cargo.

Grandpa Don doing a puzzle with the kids outside.

At the beach...

Ahhh, cottage life - reading while the cousins play happily in the sand.

Cottage transportation...

Ross found this little airplane at the local flea market and loved playing with it.

Everyone went for a ride on the little Port Elgin Steam Train.

The kids making tunnels for the model train in the kitchen one morning.

An early celebration of Caleb and Steve's birthdays!

After the week at the cottage, Steve flew back to California for work, and the kids and I spent another week in Ontario with my friend Henrietta and her three girls, and my sister. Ross became completely enamored with Emma, who is Henrietta's oldest. She was so fun, gentle, and attentive with Ross, and his face lit up when she walked in the room.

We met up with Helen and Liz in Toronto one morning. We tried to get all 9 kids in a picture together, but mine were especially uncooperative!

We got to see Aunty Kristin three weekends in a row, which was really fun! On our last weekend together, Madeleine asked to make a blueberry cake with Kristin.

Upon our return home, we got to celebrate Steve's actual birthday! The kids and I were so happy to be back, and Madeleine especially could not get enough of her Daddy all week. Tomorrow we are off again, this time to Abbotsford and Calgary to see my family, and some of my nursing classmates.